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Do’s And Don’ts Within The Lifestyle

September 1st, 2010 by abraxas received No Comments »

Many — especially guys — think that anything goes when at lifestyle (swinging) parties/events. This is far from the case. In actuality, the rules which govern behavior while at lifestyle events are more codified and strict than those which apply to the bar scene. First and foremost, safe sex practices are strictly enforced. Our club addresses these safety concerns with several levels of defenses. Firstly, all members of our club must provide proof of a clean STD status on a regular basis. Secondly, condom use is mandatory — no exceptions. We feel that despite the multitude of partners one has when in this lifestyle, our odds of being infected with an STD are far less than those engaging in random hook-ups either online or within the bar scene.

Another misconception is that a swinger’s party is akin to a free-for-all orgy. The truth is that men may not initiate uninvited contact — it only is allowed when a desire for it is expressed. Women are not obligated to do anything which they are not completely comfortable with. Most envision these events happening in a seedy motel or in a dinghy basement. Although I can’t speak for other clubs around the country, I can confidently say that our club creates events which are more analogous to a nice wedding — albeit with a lot more nudity. My husband Tom and I recently took over management of our club, and are in the midst of planning our first event. Many thanks to those of you who have written in with suggestions — we’ll keep you updated on the juicy details as they emerge.

XXXXOOOO

Barbie

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New Hosts Of Bizarresex

August 30th, 2010 by abraxas received No Comments »

Hi, everyone — we’re Tom and Barbie, and we’ve agreed to share our ongoing saga with this site’s audience. We are a sex positive couple, and we have always had an open relationship. We are in our early 30′s and live in a mid-sized city in the U.S. Midwest. Tom makes a nice living, and I am currently a stay at home mom to our precious 2 year old daughter — who can be quite a handful. From all outward appearances we are a typical all-American family, and our neighbors would be beyond shocked if they knew the full truth. Part of that truth now includes the fact that Tom and I are now in charge of running a fairly large swingers club.

We’ve been members of our “club” for just over three years now. It was originally founded by a great couple — who recently had to relocate to the West Coast. Although the club started small, it has subsequently grown to over 100 couples, and over 50 couples attended our last event. We were honored — and a bit intimidated — when we were asked to take over management of the club, and we were initially inclined to decline the offer. However, after a long discussion, we decided to go for it and give it a shot. Our first event is coming up soon, and we are busy making plans.

A lot goes into planning these events ranging from the venue (not easy around these parts), food, drink and, of course, special toys and attractions. One of the reasons this club has been so successful is that each event features a new twist — something to always keep everyone on their toes. So we’ve now been invited by the owners of this blog to share with everyone (sans identifying details of course) our exploits as we delve further into the world of swinging. We’re also open to feedback from the many readers of BizarreSex — especially ideas for our first event!

I’ll keep everyone updated as our plans progress. Bye for now,

Barbie

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Glory Hole Police Roundup

August 27th, 2010 by abraxas received 1 Comment »

Who knew glory holes were real? Apparently they are, and make for some priceless police blotter. Here are a couple of gems:


  • An investigation of a damaged fire alarm in a Louisiana hotel room turned odd when hotel staff and the sheriff found some other problems with the room. The bedroom door had been replaced with a large piece of plywood that had a crotch-high hole cut into it and was padded with duct tape. Hotel guests complained that the main door to the room had been propped open, young men had been in and out of the room all night, and they heard “sex noises” from the room. The culprit? Russell Vanderwerf, a Houston based federal gun regulator who had rented the room. Police found caulk and paint in the room as well, implying the ATF agent wanted to fix the damage himself before checking out. That was nice of him at least. These are exactly the kind of people we need protecting us from illegal guns and booze, right?


  • In the small town of Oak Harbor in Washington, police busted a local prostitution ring and their investigation led them to good old Craigslist. The officer said the classifieds site has exposed the town’s “unwholesome underbelly,” after finding a glory hole ad on the site. The cop expressed his concern by pointing out, “you have no way of knowing what’s on the other side of that door.” That’s kind of the idea, officer. Interestingly, they found no laws being broken with the glory hole situation.

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