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The 20 Strangest Sex Laws

September 5th, 2011 by abraxas received No Comments »

The world is messed up. Click through for the strangest sex laws currently still on the books.

Some Bizarre Sex Tips

June 21st, 2011 by abraxas received 1 Comment »

1- Bite her

It might sound vicious, but in fact biting is quite sexy and one of the most exciting of our bizarre sex tips when done correctly. You are not going to chew or take out chunks of flesh. What you are going to do, however, is much more subtle: Open your mouth on a shoulder, buttock or other fleshy area (her side or thighs) and attempt to close your jaw by applying gentle pressure. Your teeth should never join in the middle, and pinching the skin with the teeth is not what you are after. Don’t overdo it — a few well-timed bites show your passion. A good example is if you are taking her from behind, and when you climax, bite her back or shoulder.

2- Oil up

Using oil as a medium for your sexual artwork is not new, but it is often underutilised. Oil provides a slick surface for your sex play, and sometimes more is better. The oil should be vegetable-based and smell good. Ylang ylang essential oil is a relaxant and aphrodisiac. The oil should be smooth, like an almond-based oil. Grab a shower curtain or other oil-proof covering, oil yourselves up and slip-slide your way to orgasm.

3- Use hot and cold

Temperature changes stimulate and excite nerves. When outside influences stay the same, your nerves relax and can become desensitised — they know what’s coming, nothing is changing, so they go to low power. If you stimulate the nerves by changing temperature, they stay awake and, therefore, increase the power of your sexual play. You can use a variety of substances, like hot chocolate, a cool glass of wine or an ice cube. Be careful not to make the experience uncomfortable. Until you get the hang of it, ask for feedback. Use for oral sex or invent your own games.

4- Suck her feet

Some people hate feet or hate their own feet being touched. However, having your foot licked and sucked on is one of the most sensual of the bizarre sex tips. In between the toes and the arch of the foot are the most sensitive areas of the foot. Get her to do it to you, so you know exactly how it feels. Clean, trimmed feet are crucial to this bizarre sex tip’s success. Also, sucking is best done slowly. Be aware of after-shower feet — soap doesn’t taste good.

5- Spank her

Spanking comes in line with biting, but is more pronounced and does hurt; however, it is a scientifically proven fact that buttock spanking while aroused tricks the body into translating the smack as pleasure and provides a rush of blood to the area. Slightly cup your hand, but keep it loose and give the area of the buttock furthest away from the anus a good thwack. You want to get that good slap sound and a good palm-butt connection. Don’t overdo it, porn star.

6- Rub her bum

Make sure she knows you are not going to try to insert a finger (or other object including tongue) into her anus. One method is while she is straddling you, reach around and slide your wet finger up and down over her anus, but don’t put any pressure on it. The same goes while performing oral sex on her. Let her do the same to you. Make sure you are very clean before you start — some surprises are not hot.

7- Eat

Having a sexy picnic in bed is a great way to incorporate food and sex. Stay away from particularly pungent foods (unless you both really like them) as they can be arid on the breath. Stick to fruits and cheese platters, and use your bodies as the plate. Decadence and pleasure will breed more, so take some food to bed and have a sensual few hours enjoying each other’s company.

8- Take her from a right angle

Make no mistake about it: This is a challenge. Think of all the ways you can have sex at a right angle, and try them all. Sex at a right angle can provide some very interestingly bizarre sex positions, and yes, you are going to have to use your imagination. Some suggestions are the “tong” — she is almost horizontal, holding herself up with one arm with her bottom leg resting on a bed or other low surface. You are standing, holding her legs and penetrating her.

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These tips ought to refresh your memory when it comes to creative and sometimes bizarre sex. So the next time you find yourself bored with the missionary position, remember that there’s a million ideas that can keep your sex life feeling fresh.


List of Paraphilias

February 22nd, 2011 by abraxas received 1 Comment »

The following is a list of paraphilias.  A paraphilia is defined asa  powerful and persistent sexual interest other than in copulatory or precopulatory behavior with phenotypically normal, consenting adult human partners. Some paraphilias have more than one term to describe them, and some terms overlap with others.

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Formal name Common name Source of arousal DSM code
Abasiophilia People with impaired mobility
Acrotomophilia amputee fetish People with amputations
Agalmatophilia Statues, mannequins and immobility
Albinaphilia A great liking for purely albino objects. May become sexual.
Algolagnia Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation
Andromimetophilia Trans men
Apotemnophilia Having an amputation
Asphyxiophilia Asphyxiation or strangulation
Autagonistophilia Being on stage or on camera
Autassassinophilia Being in life-threatening situations
Autoandrophilia A biological female imagining herself as a male
Autoerotic asphixiation Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness
Autogynephilia A biological male imagining himself as a female
Biastophilia Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy
Chremastistophilia Being robbed or held up
Chronophilia Partners of a widely differing chronological age
Coprophilia scat Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia
Dacryphilia Tears or crying
Dendrophilia Trees
Emetophilia Vomit
Erotic asphyxiation Asphyxia of oneself or others
Erotophonophilia Murder
Exhibitionism Exposing oneself sexually to others, with or without their consent
Formicophilia Being crawled on by insects
Forniphilia Human furniture Turning a human being into a piece of furniture
Frotteurism frot Rubbing against a non-consenting person 302.89
Gerontophilia Elderly people
Gynandromorphophilia she-males Women with penises or men cross-dressed as women.
Hebephilia Pubescent children
Homeovestism Wearing clothing emblematic of one’s own sex
Hybristophilia Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes
Infantophilia Pedophilia with a focus on children five years old or younger. (Recently suggested term, not in general use.)
Kleptophilia Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia
Klismaphilia Enemas
Lactophilia Breast milk
Liquidophilia immersing genitals in liquids
Maiesiophilia pregnant women
Macrophilia Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men
Mammaphilia Breasts; also known as mammagynophilia and mastofact
Masochism BDSM suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated 302.83
Mechanophilia cars or other machines; also “mechaphilia”.
Menophilia Menstruation
Morphophilia Particular body shapes or sizes
Mucophilia Mucus
Mysophilia Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things
Narratophilia talking dirty Obscene words
Nasophilia Noses
Necrophilia Corpses
Olfactophilia Smells
Paraphilic infantilism Being a baby; also referred to as autonepiophilia
Partialism Specific, non-genital body parts
Paedophilia Prepubescent children, also spelled pedophilia. Often confused with hebephilia, ephebophilia, and pederasty. 302.2
Peodeiktophilia Exposing one’s penis
Pedovestism Dressing like a child
Pictophilia Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures
Podophilia foot fetish Feet.
Pyrophilia Fire
Raptophilia Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy
Sacofricosis Making a hole in a pocket in order to masturbate unobtrusively in public
Sadism BDSM Inflicting pain on others 302.84
Salirophilia Soiling or dirtying others
Sexual fetishism Nonliving objects 302.81
Somnophilia Sleeping or unconscious people
Sthenolagnia muscle worship Muscles and displays of strength
Stigmatophilia Body piercings and tattoos
Symphorophilia Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents
Telephone scatologia Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia
Teratophilia Deformed or monstrous people
Transvestic fetishism cross-dressing Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism 302.3
Transvestophilia A transvestite sexual partner
Trichophilia Hair
Troilism cuckolding Cuckoldism, watching one’s partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party’s knowledge; also known as triolism
Urolagnia Piss play Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on
Vampirism blood play Drawing or drinking blood
Vorarephilia vore The idea of eating or being eaten by others; usually swallowed whole, in one piece
Voyeurism Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia. 302.82
Zoophilia / Bestiality Animals (actual, not anthropomorphic)
Zoosadism Inflicting pain on or seeing animals in pain